First time girl on girl

Your first time having lesbian sex , or girl-on-girl slash vulva-on-vulva sex, can be pretty nerve racking and daunting. No matter how confident you are, or how much lesbian porn you've watched which FYI, is not realistic AT ALL all vaginas are different and like to stimulated in different ways. So if you're in need of some tips on how to have sex with a girl or vulva-having person, here's what you need to know - from how to beat the nerves, to which lesbian sex positions to try. I know you're thinking,"How on earth will I know what to do? If you've had male or penis-having sexual partners before, that may help inform a fair bit of what you do, but it still might feel strange to be giving what you have previously received.

My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry. From experimenting with kink to just trying something new and wild, everyone experiences thousands of first times in the bedroom—that's how sex stays fun, right? This week, we're talking to Imogen Dive about the moment she realized she was bisexual—and her first time with a girl. You can subscribe on iTunes , Google Play, and Stitcher. If you're using something else, this RSS link should let you add the podcast to whatever platform you'd like. If you'd like to directly download the podcast, click here.

Despite what we see in the movies, first time romps are rarely the most orgasm-inducing, rocket-blasting sensual experiences of our burgeoning sex lives. The truth is, no one knows what they're doing. And what about having sex with a woman?

They're also told that losing their virginity is defined by the first time a penis enters their vagina. But that's just the case. Britney Blair , PsyD, CBSM, AASECT, a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and founder of the sexual wellness app Lover , says that the reason there are so many myths around what sex feels like for a woman is because there's a lot of misinformation floating around.